Thursday, March 14, 2013

My Graduation Fundraiser & Celebration!!


Hello Friends and Family!

If you didn't already know, I graduated with my B.A. in Asian American Studies and a Health Education minor this past December 2012 from SFSU.  Now, all that's left is walking the stage this May 2013.  I will be participating in a special graduation ceremony at SFSU called "FilGrad" because I want to participate in a graduation ceremony that is relevant to what I have accomplished these past 6 years at SF State.

The FilGrad ceremony will cost each participant $275.  In which case, I have created an event at Supperclub in SF this March 22nd from 9:00pm-1:30am to help me raise funds.

 Please come out and celebrate with me! If you absolutely can't make it, but would like to donate money -you DON"T have to attend the event, but as long as you buy a ticket from this link:  

http://colorspartykhay.eventbrite.com/

all the proceeds will contribute to my graduation!
The online tickets are only $10 (plus eventbrite fee) and accepted all night!
The guest list is $15 before 11pm, but you MUST arrive inside by 11 and say my name at the door in order for me to get credit.

VIP is also available on my ticket page!

Please let me know if you have any questions!
Cheers!






Khay Hembrador
Instagram: ladykhay415 




































More info on FilGrad:


The Filipino Graduation at San Francisco State University has become a

beloved tradition within the community and has grown out of rich history of the

campus. "FilGrad" is not exclusive to Filipinos and places the spotlight on those students

in our community who have reached the requirement to receive a degree at any level of

higher education. Unlike any other commencement ceremony, FilGrad is put together by

the graduates themselves and is in itself a journey.


In the United States, only half of Filipino college students who enter as freshmen

at a university of higher education receive a college degree. Surrounded by family,

friends, and loved ones, these students who participate in FilGrad are in turn thanking

those around them for the help, support, love, and inspiration they received in their lives.

This year, FilGrad will be held on May 26, 2013 at San Francisco State University.

In order for us graduates to be able to organize this special graduation ceremony,

we are asking our community that has supported us along this journey to aid us

financially. 


Maraming Salamat Po (Thank you very much),

FilGrad Board 2013



Wednesday, March 13, 2013

Public Speaking & Representing AAWAA at UC Berkeley!

Foreword:

As of October 2010, I have invested a lot of time and energy into Asian American Women Artists Association (AAWAA).  This organization has been my healing therapy and has trained and developed me into the young professional I am today.  When I entered this organization in 2010 it lacked structure and some important programs that were needed to help maintain the organizations mission statement to ensure the visibility and documentation of Asian American women in the arts.  Having to mold an organization is truly a handful, but such a valuable learning experience.  AAWAA offers a nurturing environment for personal and professional growth. My experiences being a part of this organization has truly been priceless.



March 7th, 2013, myself, my colleague Brian Ignacio, and AAWAA's newest intern, Jennifer Bequio, were invited to speak about AAWAA in Greg Choy's Ethnic Studies class at U.C. Berkeley.  It was great to see my colleague and intern so engaged in AAWAA and its' programs... I can see AAWAA taking it to another level very soon.




Photo Credit to Intern: Jennifer Bequio

Tuesday, March 5, 2013

Participating in the "Youthful Dreams" Exhibition

"Youtful Dreams" is a part of Asian American Women Atists Associations (AAWAA) Emerging Curator Program (ECP). The ECP was created to bring the curatorial focus on Asian American Art; many times galleries will spend tremendous amounts of money to bring art and artists from other countries to come and showcase.  But, right here, in America, there are many artists that are more than worthy of showcasing their works and experiences in galleries.  So, as our ECP exhibitions increase, we also strive to increase the number of curators that are trained to curate Asian American art.

"Youthful Dreams" has been curated by one of SFSU's 2013 Asian American Studies Major graduate's: Brian Ignacio!  And I have been lucky enough to be one of the exhibiting artists in this show!





1400 Geary Blvd.
San Francisco, CA 94109


Events within the gallery:
Opening Reception: Thursday, March 14th 3:30pm - 8pm
Exhibition Dates: March 10th - May 3rd
AAWAA & Curator Lecture: Wednesday, March 20 3:30pm - 5pm
Mixed Media Art Workshop: "Playtime with Sue Tom": unday, April 14th, 2pm-4pm
Literary Reading: Saturday, April 20th 2pm - 4pm
Gallery Hours: Monday - Sunday, 9am-6pm

Monday, February 11, 2013

Art & Healing

This is a research paper, also from my last semester at SFSU.  This was done in Grace Yoo and Darren Won's "Asian American Pro-Seminar" class, also known as "AAS 697."  As stressful as this class was, it really helped me to narrow down my focus...especially as graduation came closer.  Although it was completed for a passing grade in professor Yoo's class, it is, in my eyes, not complete.  There is still much research to be done, more voices to be heard.....and hopefully by creating legitimate research results, we can provide much needed services to this particular community.

My research paper discussed mental health disorders and issues in the Asian American women's community.  If you didn't already know, suicide and mental health disorders among our community are highest as compard to other groups of color, yet we utilize mental help services the least. What are the cultural boundaries that keep Asian American women from asking for help? Why do Asian families make "shame" and "silence" such a valuable cultural factor when dealing with problems?

Through my research, I've found that Asian culture does not teach vebal communication very well, but art has become a platform to start painful and difficult conversations in a non-verbal manner.... Read on by clicking on the link:

https://docs.google.com/document/d/1OLMvLfhGQc_Ivhwm-9f1BdDFDKY3LSLzPAnd-pBk7UI/edit?usp=sharing


(all citations and research sources are in the paper)

thoughts? additions? testimonials....feel free to drop me a line. on here or by personal email khay@aawaa.net

Asian American Studies 681 @ SFSU

This past semester (Fall 2012) was also my bittersweet last semester as an undergrad at SFSU. During this semester I also took a class called "Asian American Studies 681: Community Change & Development" taught by Jennie Woo.  This class required us to take one Community Based Organization (CBO) and research everything there is to know about it.  So, myself (Khay Hembrador), Tristan Medina, Jonathan Wu, and Cristy Kim decided to write about AAWAA!

The link to the whole article:



Enjoy!

Thursday, November 22, 2012

SFSU College of Ethnic Studies 43rd Anniversary!

Special thanks to Wei Ming Dariotis, Isabelle Pelaud, Lorraine Dong, Becky Mou & the entire Asian American Studies Department!  I was a Student Honoree for the Asian American Studies Department of the College of Ethnic Studies 43rd Anniversary Celebration at San Francisco State University this fall 2012!

With support and recognition from the Asian American studies Department, and through my involvement in the Asian American community through non-profit works and academic endeavors, I was also a recipient of the Susan Dean Scholarship this fall sememster 2012!!  Many thanks also to: Asian American Women Artists Association (AAWAA), you have been my stepping stone and guiding light, also to Asian Pacific Islander Cultural Center (APICC) for giving me the opportunity to gain more experience and help you serve the community. Much, much love! Happy Thanksgiving!

Tuesday, July 10, 2012

Hosting a Self-Defense Workshop!

Friday, June 15, 2012

Who Is Khay Hembrador?

Recently I answered to a model call for Retrofit Republic & Thick Dumpling Skin, I thought the questions I answered were a good way for folks to really know who I am and what I'm about. (don't know if I've been accepted yet) enjoy.





How do you look good?

First and foremost, I look good by wearing things that make me feel good. I prefer clothes that accentuate my body, not restrict my curves.  I like my make-up to enhance my features, not cover them up. Last but not least, I try to wear my hair in a way that matches the intensity of my shoes and/or my personality.  Growing up, I was always told that my hair was too thick, frizzy, curly, etc. Now that I am older and have found the style that suits me, I have learned to love my hair and its versatility.  Another thing I’ve learned to love is color!  I don’t think there is a color out there that I haven’t tried on. I love intense colors, and mixing and matching.  I love being classy and making a statement with my outfit.


More important than appearance is my attitude.  I look best when I wear a positive attitude!  I’ve found that one of my talents is being able to change someone’s perspective on a potentially negative situation.  I believe when I exert positive energy and handle tough situations with a positive attitude that it shows character allowing people around me to see that my intentions are good.



How do you do good?


I do good by doing what I do best: inspiring other women around me by being a fierce Asian American community leader and an edgy visual and literary artist.  I am a role model in more ways than one.  I teach karate for children and teenagers, Muay Thai kickboxing and cardio kickboxing for adults (particularly women) at Karate Team USA. And I am also a non-profit project coordinator for an organization called Asian American Women Artists Association (AAWAA).  Both of these organizations empower women ans strengthen our community. Although they are inadequately funded and underrecognized, I choose to stay in these roles because it fulfills me to see that I am helping to create a stronger and more ambitious generation behind me and learning from those in front of me.  



Through these roles, I do good by breaking stereotypes and challenging assumptions and I attempt to inspire everyone I meet.  We often times judge a book by its cover depending on what the other person is wearing, their facial expression, their body language, and/or the way that they walk and talk.  People make assumptions about me on a daily basis that I am a “mean fighting machine”, but in actuality I wouldn’t hurt a fly unless my life was in danger.  So, what if that “badass, mean-looking” lady thundering down the street was actually a genuinely nice person?  Maybe they have reasons for carrying themselves the “badass” way that they do? Being a survivor of child abuse and abusive relationships, I know I do!  But, instead of treating other women as competition, I treat them like sisters!  Women need to support each other- not step on each others’ toes to get what they need or want.  I allow myself to be vulnerable by speaking openly about my painful past, but empower people by showing them that I made a choice to change the outcome of my future – not by willpower alone, but with the help of organizations and supportive women around me.


 From the second I open my mouth to the moment I walk away I try to encourage, compliment, and make known to people around me that I genuinely support them, and that they should keep their heads up, no matter what others may think.  Sometimes, that last positive comment that you leave with someone is what will trigger change for the better.


Where do you find inspiration?


Mainly my inspiration comes from other strong women leaders around me.  My mother is a strong Asian American woman, breadwinner, and “shot-caller” of the family.  She was flown out of her small town in the Visayas of the Philippines while she was 17 years old, 6 months pregnant, broke and alone.  She has endured numerous struggles to provide for her family and make a grown-woman out of me! She is my inspiration to keep working to make my dreams happen and provide a better future for my son. 


Rocky Rivera, a female rapper/MC/journalist is a ground-breaking Asian American artist.  She breaks stereotypes through music and inspires women/listeners in general to think twice when you make assumptions about Asian American women.  Her music is everything that hip-hop should be: empowering, humanizing, politically correct (or in-correct in a righteous matter) and socially conscious.


I also find inspiration in things that make me angry, or things that I feel are unjust.  Whether I feel something is wrong for an individual or for the community I try to find out what I can do to help change things for the better.  I think our society is very individualistic – not to say individuality is wrong, but, we oftentimes fail to recognize that we cannot accomplish half of the things that we do if it weren’t for the resources made available to us by our communities and the immediate supporters/friends/family that we surround ourselves with. 








What do you love the most about yourself and why?



I am brown as my Spanish-looking grandmother, with curly hair, big thick lips, and meaty thighs.  Regardless of what I’ve been told, I love every inch of me.  As unique as my hair is, I have learned to love the fact that it’s so versatile.  I can leave my house without doing anything to my hair and still look like I spent hours curling it, or I can change my entire look by simply changing the type of hairstyle I rock.



I love that people can never figure out what my ethnic background is.  I am ½  Filipina, ¼ Chinese, and ¼ White (Polish to be exact), but I’m sure I’ve got some Spanish blood from my mothers’ side and Dutch blood from my fathers’. I can pass for many things, but when people say I look a certain way, I always challenge that assumption with the question, “Well, what are ‘[fill in the blank] people’ supposed to look like?  Who told you that”?  By simply walking out of my house and being open to conversation with anyone who is open-minded and/or interested to hear about who I am and the things that I’ve gone through, I can change an opinion or perspective on things that have long been deemed stereotypical.



I love that people who meet me and get to know me say that the way I look compliments my personality, and that they actually didn’t expect that to happen!  Many times I have a very stern or serious look on my face, maybe it’s just a force of habit from teaching martial arts since I was young, but the second I turn my attention and reach out to shake someone’s hand – they realize that they are dealing with someone that is kind and genuinely trying to understand and help.







Anything else you’d like to tell us?



Growing up in a majority white suburb of Los Angeles called Palmdale, I was always told that I didn’t fit “the image”, I wasn’t tall enough, my hair needed to be straightened and bleached, I needed to use skin-whitening soap, I was told to change everything that was physically impossible to change.  I mean, I could bleach my hair all I wanted, but the fact was that my hair would still grow out in its original black color! So, when I moved to San Francisco I attempted to hang out with “my own kind”, other Asian Americans that I thought looked like me, but then I was told I didn’t look Asian enough!  I remember one of my friends having to explain to her parents that I wasn’t black and that I could be trusted, just so that I’d be able to come over and hang out with her. 



As I got older I tried to fit myself into this stereotypical “Asian Import Girl” image.  With a terrible combination of attempting to find a direction in my life and looking for extra income, I started to work at a Vietnamese coffee shop as a lingerie waitress.  I was so angry with myself and felt that I was a hypocritical sell-out. I was working for an industry that I was completely against, and this was a point in my life where I realized the way I was raised and the experiences I have had in my past are reasons why I felt the need to try to be someone I wasn’t.  Once I understood the saying “Know History, Know Self”, I was able to completely embrace myself, my image, and even gained a new direction and passion in my life.



It is the many experiences like these along with a myriad of others in my life that have pushed me to be who I am today: a catalyst for positive change and perspective.  I see the importance in not only looking good, but also doing good and walking the walk when you talk the talk!



Photo Credits to:

Diano Mulimbayan

www.dianomphotography.com